Hello, in the hope that I can get some form of clarification. My ex-husband is pushing me to break up with him for a week. Over the last two years, they`ve been in my care and just go to Dad`s most weekends, if there are 4 weekends a month, I have them for 1, if there are 5, I have them for 2. Our divorce contract says my kids stay with me and go see him on the weekends. My heart bleeds thinking my children will see it week after week. My daughter is only 3 years old, my son is nine years old. Today he sent me a calendar with the weeks that marked him and mine. Do I have an obligation to accept his claims two years later? The divorce contract is, as he requested, I have not made any of his claims. Please advise you on how I did this 🙁 I was never married and broke up after the birth of my son, my father and me. We live in South Africa and my child is now 7 years old. The father pays child support, but sees the child only about twice a year.
I ask that people emigrate to Britain to give my son a better future, because further studies in South Africa would not be an option for my salary. The father gave his full consent for us to leave and we agreed that this will give my son a better future. I live with my parents because I can`t afford to rent my own place They get older and want to move to a smaller place and retire, but it can`t live with my child and me there. I have a very poorly paid job, with no prospects for advancement. My child`s father stays in a boarding house. I would be granted full custody if the father agrees to give me full custody, as this will give my son a future and grant me a stay in the United Kingdom. I was told that full custody was the only chance to take my son and live in Britain. My brother lives there, he will sponsor us, and I have had many job offers. Her advice would be sincerely appreciated a month before my month my wife informed me that she will file for divorce (irreeverable collapse); she made it clear that she would not engage in couple therapy. She`s still got to drop off.
Our children are 2 and 4 years old, married in COP — my wife kicked me out of the house and said it`s too hard to have me in the house. It forced me to move into my sister`s spare room, 30 km from here. 1) How does custody work until the divorce is concluded? 2) How does child care work until the end of the divorce? My daughter (K) decided to divorce her husband after 11 months of marriage. You have a 4-month-old baby. K returned to my house a month ago. The father passed Wednesday afternoon and Sunday. He did not work throughout the pregnancy, but he started working a week ago. Now he threatens that he will take legal action if she decides to divorce him and announces that he will have the baby, given that he is the only person who works. My daughter was working before she got pregnant and supported him. At the moment, I pay (grandmother) for a nursery (while she is looking for work) and I also pay all expenses for the child. The adaptation of access is a very good example of an out-of-court agreement. One could see it if a father who lives with his mother in Johannesburg works in Durban and needs care during a visit with the baby because he is not familiar with the routine of caring for a baby.
However, circumstances may change after some time, when he begins living and working in Johannesburg, and both parents agree that he should be allowed to make appropriate contact with the young person.